Personal growth: Imitating Thoreau’s self-sufficiency ideas April 8, 2018
Posted by Dennis Mellersh in personal development ideas.Tags: Henry David Thoreau, inspiration, life, personal development ideas, personal development potential, philosophy, pysychology, self-actualization, self-improvement, Walden, writing
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It could be an interesting intellectual and emotional experiment in the realm of self-actualization ideas to see if we could imitate, in our mentally-oriented personal growth programs, the physically focussed two-year experiment of Henry David Thoreau who in 1845, built his own home in the woods near Walden Pond, living alone, close to nature, a mile from his nearest neighbour.
His goal was to live with the greatest self-sufficiency and simplicity as possible, depending as much as was practicable on no-one but himself.
What it would be like to duplicate this process in our minds by giving up all contact with the self-actualization information world for a period of, say, two months?
No mental uploading of any personal development media whatsoever…
… a vacation from the constantly increasing flow of self-help information and opinions competing for our attention.
A chance to live by our own mental, spiritual, and emotional resources.
But, feeling the need to always keep up to date with the self-help universe can sometimes seem like an addiction, the pull is so strong.
Perhaps we’d need to try this by starting with one week’s abstinence…or one day.
Dennis Mellersh
Personal development: Aging and the evolution of ambition November 26, 2017
Posted by Dennis Mellersh in Concept of personal development.Tags: achieving goals, Henry David Thoreau, life, personal development potential, personal growth, personal improvement, philosophy, Ralph Waldo Emerson, writing
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It seems almost axiomatic that the big dreams of our youth diminish in scope and change as we become older.
Some people acquire a firm, fixed sense of purpose, a grand vision, early in life and don’t let go or change that purpose or vision until it is achieved.
Example: A childhood friend at age ten tells us that they are going to be a doctor specializing in brain surgery. And, they ultimately achieve that ambition.
For many of us however our dreams, our sense of purpose and our goals are in flux with the passing years. As noted by Henry David Thoreau:
“The youth gets together his materials to build a bridge to the moon, or, perchance, a palace or a temple on the earth, and, at length, the middle-aged man concludes to build a woodshed with them.”(1)
It is hard not to admire the friend who is undeviatingly dedicated and successful with their stated childhood dream, but the person whose dreams and aspirations change throughout the twists and turns of life might be more interesting and profitable for us to talk to.
(1) Henry David Thoreau, as quoted by Ralph Waldo Emerson in the book Selections from Ralph Waldo Emerson: An Organic Anthology, Riverside Editions, Houghton Mifflin Company, Boston, 1960.
— Dennis Mellersh
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